The Psychology Behind Self Sabotage (And How To Break The Cycle)

£20.00

If my videos resonate, this is a deeper explanation.

As most people don't self-sabotage because they're lazy, broken, or unmotivated.

You do it because your nervous system learned patterns that once kept you safe - and now keeps you stuck.

This book explains why intelligent, self-aware people still repeat the same cycles in relationships, work, and self-trust - even when they "know better."

Each chapter breaks down the psychology behind self-sabotage in ways that are clear, grounded, and uncomfortable in the right way.

No motivational lingo. No taboo. No shame. Just clarity.

If you:

• waste time overthinking everything

• struggle with anxious attachment or emotional loops

• feel like you keep getting in your own way

• or you feel stagnant despite doing "the work"

This will resonate.

This is a affiliate link and collaboration of the book is The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery.

Email info@iamoverwhoiwas.com to join our book club or to discuss your insights on the book.

Delivery: 3-5 business working days (within UK)(within US) 10-15 business working days + delivery fee.

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CLARITY

You have done the work to know what you want, and you won't settle for less. Not only will you have more confidence in your dating interaction, but you'll also develop a deeper trust within yourself. Discernment for the win!

BULLET PROOF SELF WORTH

You define your relational values and needs and have rock-solid boundaries. You know who you are, you know what matters to you, and you're committed to living and speaking your truth. Your integrity and commitment to yourself matters above all else.

STANDING IN YOUR STANDARDS

NO. MORE. SETTLING. Dating is a healing process. It has allowed you to see your power to choose. You've discovered your voice. You no longer betray or abandon your heart for anyone or anything. You are you, and the universe is rewarding you.

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